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Mon, 20 May 2013 23:12:58 +0100

to the anon that is afraid of being wrong after she comes out to her friends: I had the same fear before I came out to my friends. After coming out, as bi, I actually felt more secure with who I was and things got a lot less confusing. Of course that might not be the same case for you but just something to think about.:) also my friends have been super supportive about it way more so than I was even expecting. so its super nice to have someone to talk to about it all

Mon, 20 May 2013 23:10:07 +0100

why are they turning hollyoaks into eastenders?

Mon, 20 May 2013 23:03:38 +0100

why are they turning hollyoaks into eastenders?

I'm in a similar situation to the other anon. I want to come out to my best friend sometime soon but I keep getting nervous about it. I know she'll be fine with it but i sometimes have days where i'm unsure about my sexuality all over again and what if i tell her and then later on it turns out that i was wrong?

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:58:30 +0100

That’s the fantastic thing about friends; you can tell them how you feel, and if you feel different the next day, you can tell them that too. Being uncertain about your sexuality is 100% normal, and it happens to almost everyone at some point, and there is nothing in the world that should make you feel like you can’t talk about that uncertainty. That’s why it’s so great to have a friend there, because sometimes, with being so unsure about something that feels so big, it can be nice to just be listened to and to get it out. It doesn’t mean that you’re signing some sort of contract by doing that.

Friends love you for you. Or they should, anyway. If you meet that person as a guy and, after a couple years, tell them that you’re a girl, it’s not their job to question that. If you meet someone as straight or gay or bisexual or whatever, and after a couple years, you think maybe you’re wrong and you have a new label that you think better suits you, it’s not their job to question that. Friends are there to listen, not judge. They should never make you feel wrong for just being yourself.

The worry about your sexuality maybe changing is one that may never go away, or it might go away in a week. You just don’t know. Maybe, when you come out to your friend, you could approach it from that angle? Rather than telling her for sure, just talk to her about what you think your sexuality might be, and how you’re feeling about things. But, if the uncertainty makes you feel like you’re not ready, then maybe it’s best to just wait. Just make sure that you’re going to be okay. There’s no rush at all :)

Good. You deserve it :)

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:43:15 +0100

You’re really sweet :) I hope you’re feeling happy lately too.

One thing I would like to know, is if you're happy?

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:39:01 +0100

Very much so, yes :)

robinrealhood: YOU TOOK HER TO PARIS ON A FIRST FUCKING DATE WHAT THE HELL ELSE IS SHE MEANT TO...

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:36:00 +0100

robinrealhood:

YOU TOOK HER TO PARIS ON A FIRST FUCKING DATE WHAT THE HELL ELSE IS SHE MEANT TO THINK

Hi! I'm planning on coming out to my best friend this weekend and i was just wondering if you had any tips on what to say?

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:35:05 +0100

I don’t think there’s really one go-to answer, because it really does depend entirely on you and your friend. The way I came out to each of my friends was different, because my relationships with them were all different.

I think, as long as you know you want to and you know that you’re ready, you just need to think how you would be most comfortable approaching it yourself, and depending on your friend and how you think she’ll react. Maybe that’s to her face, or maybe by text, or whatever. There’s not a right answer. Just make sure that you’re ready for any reaction that she might give, and just go with what feels right from there. Chances are, if you have a script ready in your head (which, if you’re anything like me, you will haha), you won’t get it all out as you’d planned. Just make sure that you get across what you need to, and be prepared for questions, because there will probably be a few :)

I’m in love with Binky.

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:22:18 +0100

I’m in love with Binky.

What did you want to grow up to be when you were younger?

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:18:52 +0100

I’ve wanted to go into design since I was 12 :) before that, I wanted to be a football player for years.

inbox me 1 thing you wanna know about me.

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:16:40 +0100

Charlie I just failed an important test and I'm so sad :( can I have a you-will-be-fine-message? Thank you.

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:15:00 +0100

Ah, I’m so sorry. It’s always hard to feel better right after something like that happens, because it’s JUST happened, and for a little while it might feel like the end of the world. That’s pretty normal.

But it’s not, which I’m sure you know. You will be MORE than fine, because exams can be done over, and grades are never set in stone. I hate exams, and I am very anti-examination in terms of how schooling is done, so I’m the worst person at replying to messages like this because I’m just like ‘FUCK IT!’ haha. But, fact is, failing an exam doesn’t mean that you’re not good enough to pass it.

I really hope you don’t feel down about it for too long, and I’m sorry that my reply was so sucky, but there’s so much more to you than grades on a piece of paper. I would gif hug you right about now if I was on my laptop. You’ll have to imagine a huge hug here.

Louise SHUT UP.

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:07:44 +0100

Louise SHUT UP.

robinrealhood: omg andy/lucy/stevie why don’t we see more of this

Mon, 20 May 2013 22:04:07 +0100

robinrealhood:

omg andy/lucy/stevie why don’t we see more of this

Behind the scenes from an unknown photoshoot (x)

Mon, 20 May 2013 20:59:45 +0100

Behind the scenes from an unknown photoshoot (x)

a film by Spencer Carlin

Mon, 20 May 2013 20:29:01 +0100

a film by Spencer Carlin

100 GLEE MOMENTS:↳ 37/100: are you a porn star or a drag...

Mon, 20 May 2013 19:38:47 +0100

100 GLEE MOMENTS:
↳ 37/100: are you a porn star or a drag queen?

Keck's Exclusives: Vanessa Lengies on Leaving Glee and Landing a New Sitcom

Mon, 20 May 2013 18:44:26 +0100

Keck's Exclusives: Vanessa Lengies on Leaving Glee and Landing a New Sitcom:

fyeahgleeclub:

Fox’s Glee will be a little less sweet next season now that Vanessa Lengies, who plays Sugar, has landed a regular role on the midseason ABC sitcom Mixology. “Getting to play Sugar Motta was one of the biggest opportunities of my life, and I met some of the most fantastic people, but I was being hired per episode,” Lengies says about why she made the switch. “I loved getting to be there and dancing around, but I didn’t really have much of an opportunity to act.”

On Mixology, Lengies will play a bubbly waitress named Kacey. “For an actress who really hasn’t gotten to act for two years, it was like letting a wild dog out of its cage,” says the elated star, who received congratulations from Glee pals Jenna Ushkowitz, Kevin McHale and Heather Morris.

And since Mixology doesn’t debut until 2014, Lengies hopes she’ll be able to give Sugar a proper send-off next fall. Her exit pitch: “I would love to have them introduce a time machine and reveal that Sugar was a visitor from the future.”

100 GLEE MOMENTS:↳ 36/100: here’s for brittany, from...

Mon, 20 May 2013 17:18:40 +0100

100 GLEE MOMENTS:
↳ 36/100: here’s for brittany, from santana.

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Mon, 20 May 2013 16:55:47 +0100